Is it just me, or does everyone wonder if free agency is such a gift sometimes.
Sometimes i think to myself that i wish someone would just tell me exactly what to do, and what will happen after i do it.
Like every week i just get some kind of transcript in the mail, telling me what will be going on this week.
It will say things like, "i know you think waiting a couple extra days before mowing the lawn wont be a big deal. But it will, and the lawn will be SO long that it will take you 3 times as long to mow then if you just do it today."
Or, "tomorrow, someone you love will be having a bad day, go buy them a giant candy bar".
It will tell me what to make for dinner, and a list of things i should buy at the store, so i dont have to go back for the ten things i forgot i needed.
There will be a list of already made appointments for the things i forget, like the vet, the doctor, or the dentist.
It will include a list of people i should help, or spend extra time with. People that might need me, or people i need who wont be around when I need them. With this section there will be a list of appropriate things to say that will be helpful, and also a list of the things i shouldnt say out loud...
Most importantly will be a list of things i am going to be sad, or angry about. So that i can be TOTALLY prepared to not overreact, cry for an hour, or say something i might regret.
Well until the day that someone becomes my psychic "life coach" and starts sending me these things, i guess im just going to have to keep making mistakes, saying silly things, and trying to be there more for the people i love. So dont be shy peeps, even if you just need a giant candy bar, im your girl.
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2 comments:
I can barely handle what I do every day... I can't imagine getting a list of things that I should be doing on top of that... Think of the guilt trips when you can't accomplish all of it or being so overwhelmed... I like your solution!
FLYlady.org is the closest thing I can think of on part of the stuff. She will send you emails on what to clean in your house, dinners you can make and ways to get routines in your live but just be aware that it can get REALLY annoying. The only thing I am consistent with is I like my shiny sink, so I keep fluttering along. ;)
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